Marry A Man Who Touches You...

Marry A Man Who Touches You...

"Marry a man who uses his strength,

his sensuality, his softness

and his sexuality to touch you…

physically, intimately and deeply

through your mind, body and soul.

Marry a man who touches you

first thing in the morning,

right before your body fully wakes,

whose fingers entwine with yours during the day,

and whose lips press kisses onto your eyelids

as he brushes the hair from your face

each night before you sleep.

Fall for a man who knows

that grown men cry,

and tremble at times,

and that it is okay to feel scared

about love,
loss and loneliness.

His vulnerability is what tenderly

touches the hidden parts of you.

Marry a man who is not afraid to pull you close

when a storm sets in, and one who knows his touch

is a powerful force when blowing

and moving black clouds.

Be adored by a man who touches your imperfections,

a man who strokes the tangles free from your hair,

who bites at the bones of your hips,

the edges of your chaos,

and magically heals deeply rooted wounds

while slowly moving

his hand over your scars.

Marry a man whose soothing embrace

keeps you centred and safe.

Wherever in the world you may be,

whatever roads you may roam,

whatever part of your journey you are on,

his touch brings you home.

A man who is never too busy

or too preoccupied to lie under the stars

and talk about the mysteries of the universe.

A man who finds wonder in how the stars

need the darkness to shine and one

who wants to touch the stories

that lie within the vortex of your heart.

Explore life with a man who is free-spirited,

fearless, carefree and wild;

one who lives without boundaries,

rules and regulations;

one who cares about things that matter

and who has no interest in the things that don’t.

Marry a man who does not understand

why the world lives by unwritten rules

and social norms and expectations.

Someone who is not afraid to break down walls,

tear down barriers and penetrate

hard layers to get to your core.

A man who is genuine, real and authentic

and who wants to touch the naked truth,

while not being afraid of what he might find.

Marry a man who knows that he is a blend

of masculine and feminine

and that the process of alchemy mixed
to create that gold.

Marry someone who is happy to explore

and express both sides,

and who doesn’t question

or doubt who he is

when he is in-touch and in-tune

with each aspect of himself.

Fall for a man who exquisitely touches your soul

when he takes accountability for his thoughts,
words and actions.

The one who does not see his errors as flaws,

rather as lessons required to make changes and adjustments.

Marry a man who will never try to tone your colours,

file your sharp edges or dim your light

—a man who knows that when you shine, his world shines too.

Be touched by a man who is honoured to be the one who holds you tight,

but knows you must be just far away enough so that you can spin

like a lighthouse and view what’s around you with space and clarity.

Marry a man who has let go of baggage,

heavy weights and painful past experiences,

so that his shoulders are light and his arms are free

to wrap fully around you

so you can create new memories

to replace the ones that used to haunt him.

The type of man I would marry

is one who knows that to touch a woman deeply

he needs to first see her mind.

Someone who is willing to look inside a woman,

not just at her, and a man who knows how to make love

to the mind and is able to seduce without physical touch.

A man who loses himself

momentarily in the pleasurable sensations

that arise in his body

when he touches the woman at his side.

Most of all, marry a man who knows

how to touch himself first;

a man who knows that to love someone else,

he first must know how to love himself.

A man who knows that a woman is not a part of him,

but an added bonus to his life.

The man worth marrying is a man

who sees himself as being one worth marrying,

who is willing to give, but is also willing to take.

The man whose touch means the most

is the man whose touch has the right intention

when, how and where he touches you.

The touch will be one that sends shivers

through your body and mind and reminds you

that the magnificent man at your side is the one

who you choose, day after day,

to be the one who has the privilege

of touching you for life."