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Mikael Howerton says:
11:11 am on 25 Oct 2021

The ten Kings given power for a short time!

Ten regional territory's of FEMA! Have any of the ten people put in charge of each territory been elected?

Shall the king you have chosen give over his power to FEMA, or shall he make it look like he has,
so they will be revealed for what they are! An extension of the UN! Stand ready my beloveds!

If you believe in liberty, then stand for liberty!

FEMA - The Secret Government
By Harry V. Martin with research assistance from David Caul

Copyright FreeAmerica and Harry V. Martin, 1995

Some people have referred to it as the "secret government" of the United States.

It is not an elected body, it does not involve itself in public disclosures, and it even has a quasi-secret budget in the billions of dollars.

This government organization has more power than the President of the United States or the Congress,
it has the power to suspend laws, move entire populations, arrest and detain citizens without a warrant
and hold them without trial, it can seize property, food supplies, transportation systems, and can suspend the Constitution.

Not only is it the most powerful entity in the United States, but it was not even created under Constitutional law by the Congress.

It was a product of a Presidential Executive Order.

No, it is not the U.S. military nor the Central Intelligence Agency, they are subject to Congress.

The organization is called FEMA, which stands for the Federal Emergency Management Agency.

Originally conceived in the Richard Nixon Administration, it was refined by President Jimmy Carter
and given teeth in the Ronald Reagan and George Bush Administrations.

FEMA had one original concept when it was created, to assure the survivability of the United States governmen
t in the event of a nuclear attack on this nation.

It was also provided with the task of being a federal coordinating body during times of domestic disasters,
such as earthquakes, floods and hurricanes.

Its awesome powers grow under the tutelage of people like Lt. Col. Oliver North and General Richard Secord,
the architects on the Iran-Contra scandal and the looting of America's savings and loan institutions.

FEMA has even been given control of the State Defense Forces, a rag-tag, often considered neo-Nazi,
civilian army that will substitute for the National Guard, if the Guard is called to duty overseas.

THE MOST POWERFUL ORGANIZATION IN THE UNITED STATES

Though it may be the most powerful organization in the United States, few people know it even exists.

But it has crept into our private lives.

Even mortgage papers contain FEMA's name in small print if the property in question is near a flood plain.

FEMA was deeply involved in the Los Angeles riots and the 1989 Loma Prieta earthquake in the San Francisco Bay Area.

Some of the black helicopter traffic reported throughout the United States,
but mainly in the West, California, Washington, Arizona, New Mexico, Texas and Colorado,
are flown by FEMA personnel.

FEMA has been given responsibility for many new disasters including urban forest fires,
home heating emergencies, refugee situations, urban riots, and emergency planning for nuclear and toxic incidents.

In the West, it works in conjunction with the Sixth Army.

FEMA was created in a series of Executive Orders. A Presidential Executive Order, whether Constitutional or not,
becomes law simply by its publication in the Federal Registry.

Congress is by-passed.

Executive Order Number 12148 created the Federal Emergency Management Agency that is to interface
with the Department of Defense for civil defense planning and funding. An "emergency czar" was appointed.

FEMA has only spent about 6 percent of its budget on national emergencies,
the bulk of their funding has been used for the construction of secret underground facilities
to assure continuity of government in case of a major emergency, foreign or domestic.

Executive Order Number 12656 appointed the National Security Council as the principal body that should consider emergency powers.

This allows the government to increase domestic intelligence and surveillance of U.S. citizens and would restrict the freedom
of movement within the United States and grant the government the right to isolate large groups of civilians.

The National Guard could be federalized to seal all borders and take control of U.S. air space and all ports of entry.

Here are just a few Executive Orders associated with FEMA that would suspend the Constitution and the Bill of Rights.

These Executive Orders have been on record for nearly 30 years and could be enacted by the stroke of a Presidential pen:

EXECUTIVE ORDER 10990 allows the government to take over all modes of transportation and control of highways and seaports.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 10995 allows the government to seize and control the communication media.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 10997 allows the government to take over all electrical power, gas, petroleum, fuels and minerals.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 10998 allows the government to take over all food resources and farms.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 11000 allows the government to mobilize civilians into work brigades under government supervision.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 11001 allows the government to take over all health, education and welfare functions.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 11002 designates the Postmaster General to operate a national registration of all persons.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 11003 allows the government to take over all airports and aircraft, including commercial aircraft.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 11004 allows the Housing and Finance Authority to relocate communities,
build new housing with public funds, designate
areas to be abandoned, and establish new locations for populations.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 11005 allows the government to take over railroads, inland waterways and public storage facilities.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 11051 specifies the responsibility of the Office of Emergency Planning
and gives authorization to put all Executive Orders
into effect in times of increased international tensions and economic or financial crisis.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 11310 grants authority to the Department of Justice to enforce the plans set out in Executive Orders,
to institute industrial support, to establish judicial and legislative liaison, to control all aliens,
to operate penal and correctional institutions, and to advise and assist the
President.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 11049 assigns emergency preparedness function to federal departments and agencies,
consolidating 21 operative Executive Orders issued over a fifteen year period.

EXECUTIVE ORDER 11921 allows the Federal Emergency Preparedness Agency to develop plans to establish control
over the mechanisms of production and distribution, of energy sources, wages, salaries, credit and the flow of money
in U.S. financial institution in any undefined national emergency.

It also provides that when a state of emergency is declared by the President,
Congress cannot review the action for six months.

The Federal Emergency Management Agency has broad powers in every aspect of the nation.

General Frank Salzedo, chief of FEMA's Civil Security Division stated in a 1983 conference that he saw FEMA's role
as a "new frontier in the protection of individual and governmental leaders from assassination,
and of civil and military installations from sabotage and/or attack, as well as prevention of dissident groups
from gaining access to U.S. opinion, or a global audience in times of crisis."

FEMA's powers were consolidated by President Carter to incorporate:

the National Security Act of 1947, which allows for the strategic relocation of industries, services,
government and other essential economic activities, and to rationalize the requirements for manpower,
resources and production facilities;

the 1950 Defense Production Act, which gives the President sweeping powers over all aspects of the economy;

the Act of August 29, 1916, which authorizes the Secretary of the Army, in time of war,
to take possession of any transportation system for transporting troops, material,
or any other purpose related to the emergency; and

the International Emergency Economic Powers Act, which enables the President to seize the property
of a foreign country or national.

These powers were transferred to FEMA in a sweeping consolidation in 1979.

HURRICANE ANDREW FOCUSED ATTENTION ON FEMA

FEMA's deceptive role really did not come to light with much of the public until Hurricane Andrew
smashed into the U.S. mainland. As Russell R. Dynes, director of the Disaster Research Center
of the University of Delaware, wrote in The World and I, "...

The eye of the political storm hovered over the Federal Emergency Management Agency.
FEMA became a convenient target for criticism."

Because FEMA was accused of dropping the ball in Florida, the media and Congress commenced to study this agency.

What came out of the critical look was that FEMA was spending 12 times more for "black operations" than for disaster relief.

It spent $1.3 billion building secret bunkers throughout the United States in anticipation of government disruption
by foreign or domestic upheaval. Yet fewer than 20 members of Congress , only members with top security clearance,
know of the $1.3 billion expenditure by FEMA for non-natural disaster situations.

These few Congressional leaders state that FEMA has a "black curtain" around its operations.

FEMA has worked on National Security programs since 1979, and its predecessor,
the Federal Emergency Preparedness Agency, has secretly spent millions of dollars
before being merged into FEMA by President Carter in 1979.

FEMA has developed 300 sophisticated mobile units that are capable of sustaining themselves for a month.

The vehicles are located in five areas of the United States.

They have tremendous communication systems and each contains a generator that would provide power
to 120 homes each, but have never been used for disaster relief.

FEMA's enormous powers can be triggered easily. In any form of domestic or foreign problem, perceived and not always actual,
emergency powers can be enacted.

The President of the United States now has broader powers to declare martial law, which activates FEMA's extraordinary powers.

Martial law can be declared during time of increased tension overseas, economic problems within the United States,
such as a depression, civil unrest, such as demonstrations or scenes like the Los Angeles riots, and in a drug crisis.

These Presidential powers have increased with successive Crime Bills, particularly the 1991 and 1993 Crime Bills,
which increase the power to suspend the rights guaranteed under the Constitution and to seize property of those suspected
of being drug dealers, to individuals who participate in a public protest or demonstration.

Under emergency plans already in existence, the power exists to suspend the Constitution and turn over the reigns of government
to FEMA and appointing military commanders to run state and local governments.

FEMA then would have the right to order the detention of anyone whom there is reasonable ground to believe...
will engage in, or probably conspire with others to engage in acts of espionage or sabotage.

The plan also authorized the establishment of concentration camps for detaining the accused, but no trial.

Three times since 1984, FEMA stood on the threshold of taking control of the nation.

Once under President Reagan in 1984, and twice under President Bush in 1990 and 1992.

But under those three scenarios, there was not a sufficient crisis to warrant risking martial law.

Most experts on the subject of FEMA and Martial Law insisted that a crisis has to appear dangerous enough
for the people of the United States before they would tolerate or accept complete government takeover.

The typical crisis needed would be threat of imminent nuclear war, rioting in several U.S. cites simultaneously,
a series of national disasters that affect widespread danger to the populous, massive terrorist attacks,
a depression in which tens of millions are unemployed and without financial resources, or a major environmental disaster.

THREE TIMES FEMA STOOD BY READY FOR EMERGENCY

In April 1984, President Reagan signed Presidential Director Number 54 that allowed FEMA to engage
in a secret national "readiness exercise" under the code name of REX 84.

The exercise was to test FEMA's readiness to assume military authority in the event of a "State of Domestic National Emergency"
concurrent with the launching of a direct United States military operation in Central America.

The plan called for the deputation of U.S. military and National Guard units so that they could legally be used for domestic law enforcement.

These units would be assigned to conduct sweeps and take into custody an estimated 400,000 undocumented
Central American immigrants in the United States.

The immigrants would be interned at 10 detention centers to be set up at military bases throughout the country.

REX 84 was so highly guarded that special metal security doors were placed on the fifth floor of the FEMA building in Washington, D.C.

Even long-standing employees of the Civil Defense of the Federal Executive Department possessing the highest possible
security clearances were not being allowed through the newly installed metal security doors.

Only personnel wearing a special red Christian cross or crucifix lapel pin were allowed into the premises.

Lt. Col. North was responsible for drawing up the emergency plan, which U.S. Attorney General William French Smith
opposed vehemently.

The plan called for the suspension of the Constitution, turning control of the government over to FEMA,
appointment of military commanders to run state and local governments and the declaration of Martial Law.

The Presidential Executive Orders to support such a plan were already in place.

The plan also advocated the rounding up and transfer to "assembly centers or relocation camps"
of a least 21 million American Negroes in the event of massive rioting or disorder,
not unlike the rounding up of the Jews in Nazi Germany in the 1930s.

The second known time that FEMA stood by was in 1990 when Desert Storm was enacted.

Prior to President Bush's invasion of Iraq, FEMA began to draft new legislation to increase its already formidable powers.

One of the elements incorporated into the plan was to set up operations within any state or locality
without the prior permission of local or state authorities.

Such prior permission has always been required in the past. Much of the mechanism being set into place
was in anticipation of the economic collapse of the Western World.

The war with Iraq may have been conceived as a ploy to boost the bankrupt economy,
but it only pushed the West into deeper recession.

The third scenario for FEMA came with the Los Angeles riots after the Rodney King brutality verdict.

Had the rioting spread to other cities, FEMA would have been empowered to step in.

As it was, major rioting only occurred in the Los Angeles area, thus preventing a pretext for a FEMA response.
On July 5, 1987, the Miami Herald published reports on FEMA's new goals.

The goal was to suspend the Constitution in the event of a national crisis, such as nuclear war, violent
and widespread internal dissent, or national opposition to a U.S. military invasion abroad.

Lt. Col. North was the architect. National Security Directive Number 52 issued in August 1982,
pertains to the "Use of National Guard Troops to Quell Disturbances."

The crux of the problem is that FEMA has the power to turn the United States into a police state
in time of a real crisis or a manufactured crisis.

Lt. Col. North virtually established the apparatus for dictatorship.

Only the criticism of the Attorney General prevented the plans from being adopted.

But intelligence reports indicate that FEMA has a folder with 22 Executive Orders for the President to sign in case of an emergency.

It is believed those Executive Orders contain the framework of North's concepts, delayed by criticism but never truly abandoned.

The crisis, as the government now see it, is civil unrest.

For generations, the government was concerned with nuclear war,
but the violent and disruptive demonstrations that surrounded the Vietnam War era prompted President Nixon
to change the direction of emergency powers from war time to times of domestic unrest.

Diana Raynolds, program director of the Edward R. Murrow Center, summed up the dangers of FEMA
today and the public reaction to Martial Law in a drug crisis:

"It was James Madison's worst nightmare that a righteous faction would someday be strong enough to sweep away
the Constitutional restraints designed by the framers to prevent the tyranny of centralized power, excessive privilege,
an arbitrary governmental authority over the individual. These restraints, the balancing and checking of powers
among branches and layers of government, and the civil guarantees, would be the first casualties in a drug-induced
national security state with Reagan's Civil Emergency Preparedness unleashed.

Nevertheless, there would be those who would welcome NSC (National Security Council) into the drug fray,
believing that increasing state police powers to emergency levels is the only way left to fight American's enemy within.

In the short run, a national security state would probably be a relief to those whose personal security
and quality of life has been diminished by drugs or drug related crime.

And, as the general public watches the progression of institutional chaos and social decay,
they too may be willing to pay the ultimate price, one drug free America for 200 years of democracy."

The first targets in any FEMA emergency would be Hispanics and Blacks,
the FEMA orders call for them to be rounded up and detained.

Tax protesters, demonstrators against government military intervention outside U.S. borders,
and people who maintain weapons in their homes are also targets.

Operation Trojan Horse is a program designed to learn the identity of potential opponents to martial law.

The program lures potential protesters into public forums, conducted by a "hero" of the people who advocates survival training.

The list of names gathered at such meetings and rallies are computerized and then targeted in case of an emergency.

The most shining example of America to the world has been its peaceful transition
of government from one administration to another.

Despite crises of great magnitude, the United States has maintained its freedom and liberty.

This nation now stands on the threshold of rule by non-elected people asserting non-Constitutional powers.

Even Congress cannot review a Martial Law action until six months after it has been declared.

For the first time in American history, the reigns of government would not be transferred from one elected element
to another, but the Constitution, itself, can be suspended.

The scenarios established to trigger FEMA into action are generally found in the society today,
economic collapse, civil unrest, drug problems, terrorist attacks, and protests against American intervention in a foreign country.

All these premises exist, it could only be a matter of time in which one of these triggers
the entire emergency necessary to bring FEMA into action, and then it may be too late,
because under the FEMA plan, there is no contingency by which Constitutional power is restored.

 

Mikael Howerton
11:11 am on 25 Oct 2021 ·

Understanding the Tares :

Do not be ignorant of Satan's psychological devices.

Know that these always seek positions of authority, they have infiltrated all high places,
their roots run deep!

They shall all be removed!

You will know my children by their fruits!

The fruits of my children are love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.

Against such things there is no law! You will also know Satan's children by their fruit!

There are six things that the FATHER hates, seven that are an abomination to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
and hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that make haste to run to evil,
a false witness who breathes out lies, and one who sows discord among brothers Satan's children
such as malignant narcissists, psychopaths and those with antisocial traits engage in maladaptive behaviors
in relationships that ultimately exploit, demean and hurt their intimate partners, family members and friends.

They use a plethora of diversionary tactics that distort the reality of their victims and deflect responsibility.

Although those who are not narcissistic can employ these tactics as well, abusive narcissists
use these to an excessive extent in an effort to escape accountability for their actions.

Here are the diversionary tactics Satanic people use to silence and degrade you.

1. Gaslighting.
Gaslighting is a manipulative tactic that can be described in different variations of three words:
“That didn’t happen,” “You imagined it,” and “Are you crazy?” "that's just a conspiracy theory"Gaslighting
is perhaps one of the most insidious manipulative tactics out there because it works to distort and erode your sense of reality;
it eats away at your ability to trust yourself and inevitably disables you from feeling justified in calling out abuse and mistreatment.

When a narcissist, sociopath or psychopath gaslights you, you may be prone to gaslighting yourself as a way
to reconcile the cognitive dissonance that might arise.

Two conflicting beliefs battle it out: is this person right
or can I trust what I experienced?

A manipulative person will convince you that the former is an inevitable truth while the latter is a sign of dysfunction on your end.

In order to resist gaslighting, it’s important to ground yourself in your own reality
– sometimes writing things down as they happened, telling a friend or reiterating your experience
to a support network can help to counteract the gaslighting effect.

The power of having a validating community is that it can redirect you from the distorted reality
of a malignant person and back to your own inner guidance.

2. Projection.
One sure sign of toxicity is when a person is chronically unwilling to see his or her own shortcomings
and uses everything in their power to avoid being held accountable for them.

This is known as projection.

Projection is a defense mechanism used to displace responsibility of one’s negative behavior
and traits by attributing them to someone else.

It ultimately acts as a digression that avoids ownership and accountability.

While we all engage in projection to some extent, according to Narcissistic Personality clinical expert
Dr. Martinez-Lewi, the projections of a narcissist are often psychologically abusive.

Rather than acknowledge their own flaws, imperfections and wrongdoings, malignant narcissists
and sociopaths opt to dump their own traits on their unsuspecting suspects in a way that is painful
and excessively cruel. Instead of admitting that self-improvement may be in order, they would prefer
that their victims take responsibility for their behavior and feel ashamed of themselves.

This is a way for a narcissist to project any toxic shame they have about themselves onto another.

For example, a person who engages in pathological lying may accuse their partner of fibbing;
a needy spouse may call their husband “clingy” in an attempt to depict them as the one who is dependent;
a rude employee may call their boss ineffective in an effort to escape the truth about their own productivity.

Narcissistic abusers love to play the “blameshifting game.”

Objectives of the game: they win, you lose, and you or the world at large is blamed for everything that’s wrong with them.

This way, you get to babysit their fragile ego while you’re thrust into a sea of self-doubt.

Fun, right?

Solution? Don’t “project” your own sense of compassion or empathy onto a toxic person and don’t own
any of the toxic person’s projections either. As manipulation expert and author Dr. George Simon (2010)
notes in his book In Sheep’s Clothing, projecting our own conscience and value system onto others
has the potential consequence of being met with further exploitation.

Narcissists on the extreme end of the spectrum usually have no interest in self-insight or change.

It’s important to cut ties and end interactions with toxic people as soon as possible so you can get centered
in your own reality and validate your own identity.

You don’t have to live in someone else’s cesspool of dysfunction.

3. Nonsensical conversations from hell.

If you think you’re going to have a thoughtful discussion with someone who is toxic,
be prepared for epic mindfuckery rather than conversational mindfulness.

Malignant narcissists and sociopaths use word salad, circular conversations, ad hominem arguments, projection
and gaslighting to disorient you and get you off track should you ever disagree with them or challenge them in any way.

They do this in order to discredit, confuse and frustrate you, distract you from the main problem
and make you feel guilty for being a human being with actual thoughts and feelings that might differ
from their own.

In their eyes, you are the problem if you happen to exist.

Spend even ten minutes arguing with a toxic narcissist and you’ll find yourself wondering how the argument even began at all.

You simply disagreed with them about their absurd claim that the sky is red and now your entire childhood, family, friends,
career and lifestyle choices have come under attack.

That is because your disagreement picked at their false belief that they are omnipotent and omniscient,
resulting in a narcissistic injury.

Remember: toxic people don’t argue with you, they essentially argue with themselves
and you become privy to their long, draining monologues.

They thrive off the drama and they live for it.

Each and every time you attempt to provide a point that counters their ridiculous assertions,
you feed them supply. Don’t feed the narcissists supply

– rather, supply yourself with the confirmation that their abusive behavior is the problem, not you.

Cut the interaction short as soon as you anticipate it escalating and use your energy on some decadent self-care instead.

4. Blanket statements and generalizations.
Malignant narcissists aren’t always intellectual masterminds – many of them are intellectually lazy.

Rather than taking the time to carefully consider a different perspective, they generalize anything and everything you say,
making blanket statements that don’t acknowledge the nuances in your argument or take into account the multiple perspectives
you’ve paid homage to. Better yet, why not put a label on you that dismisses your perspective altogether?

On a larger scale, generalizations and blanket statements invalidate experiences that don’t fit in the unsupported assumptions,
schemas and stereotypes of society; they are also used to maintain the status quo.

This form of digression exaggerates one perspective to the point where a social justice issue can become completely obscured.

For example, rape accusations against well-liked figures are often met with the reminder that there are false reports of rape that occur.

While those do occur, they are rare, and in this case, the actions of one become labeled the behavior of the majority
while the specific report itself remains unaddressed.

These everyday microaggressions also happen in toxic relationships.

If you bring up to a narcissistic abuser that their behavior is unacceptable for example, they will often make blanket generalizations
about your hypersensitivity or make a generalization such as, “You are never satisfied,” or “You’re always too sensitive”
rather than addressing the real issues at hand. It’s possible that you are oversensitive at times,
but it is also possible that the abuser is also insensitive and cruel the majority of the time.

Hold onto your truth and resist generalizing statements by realizing that they are in fact forms of black and white illogical thinking.

Toxic people wielding blanket statements do not represent the full richness of experience

– they represent the limited one of their singular experience and overinflated sense of self.

5. Deliberately misrepresenting your thoughts and feelings to the point of absurdity.

In the hands of a malignant narcissist or sociopath, your differing opinions, legitimate emotions
and lived experiences get translated into character flaws and evidence of your irrationality.

Narcissists weave tall tales to reframe what you’re actually saying as a way to make your opinions look absurd or heinous.

Let’s say you bring up the fact that you’re unhappy with the way a toxic friend is speaking to you.

In response, he or she may put words in your mouth, saying, “Oh, so now you’re perfect?”
or “So I am a bad person, huh?” when you’ve done nothing but express your feelings.

This enables them to invalidate your right to have thoughts and emotions about their inappropriate behavior
and instills in you a sense of guilt when you attempt to establish boundaries.
This is also a popular form of diversion and cognitive distortion that is known as “mind reading.”

Toxic people often presume they know what you’re thinking and feeling.

They chronically jump to conclusions based on their own triggers rather than stepping back to evaluate the situation mindfully.

They act accordingly based on their own delusions and fallacies and make no apologies for the harm they cause as a result.

Notorious for putting words in your mouth, they depict you as having an intention or outlandish viewpoint you didn’t possess.

They accuse you of thinking of them as toxic
– even before you’ve gotten the chance to call them out on their behavior
– and this also serves as a form of preemptive defense.

Simply stating, “I never said that,” and walking away should the person continue to accuse you
of doing or saying something you didn’t can help to set a firm boundary in this type of interaction.

So long as the toxic person can blameshift and digress from their own behavior, they have succeeded in convincing you
that you should be “shamed” for giving them any sort of realistic feedback.

6. Nitpicking and moving the goal posts.
The difference between constructive criticism and destructive criticism is the presence of a personal attack and impossible standards.

These so-called “critics” often don’t want to help you improve, they just want to nitpick, pull you down and scapegoat you
in any way they can.

Abusive narcissists and sociopaths employ a logical fallacy known as “moving the goalposts” in order to ensure
that they have every reason to be perpetually dissatisfied with you.

This is when, even after you’ve provided all the evidence in the world to validate your argument
or taken an action to meet their request, they set up another expectation of you or demand more proof.

Do you have a successful career?

The narcissist will then start to pick on why you aren’t a multi-millionaire yet.

Did you already fulfill their need to be excessively catered to?

Now it’s time to prove that you can also remain “independent.”

The goal posts will perpetually change and may not even be related to each other;
they don’t have any other point besides making you vie for the narcissist’s approval and validation.

By raising the expectations higher and higher each time or switching them completely, highly manipulative and toxic people
are able to instill in you a pervasive sense of unworthiness and of never feeling quite “enough.”

By pointing out one irrelevant fact or one thing you did wrong and developing a hyperfocus on it,
narcissists get to divert from your strengths and pull you into obsessing over any flaws or weaknesses instead.

They get you thinking about the next expectation of theirs you’re going to have to meet
– until eventually you’ve bent over backwards trying to fulfill their every need
– only to realize it didn’t change the horrific way they treated you.

Don’t get sucked into nitpicking and changing goal posts

– if someone chooses to rehash an irrelevant point over and over again to the point
where they aren’t acknowledging the work you’ve done to validate your point or satisfy them,
their motive isn’t to better understand.

It’s to further provoke you into feeling as if you have to constantly prove yourself.

Validate and approve of yourself.

Know that you are enough and you don’t have to be made to feel constantly deficient or unworthy in some way.

7. Changing the subject to evade accountability.

This type of tactic is what I like to call the “What about me?” syndrome.

It is a literal digression from the actual topic that works to redirect attention to a different issue altogether.

Narcissists don’t want you to be on the topic of holding them accountable for anything,
so they will reroute discussions to benefit them.

Complaining about their neglectful parenting?

They’ll point out a mistake you committed seven years ago.

This type of diversion has no limits in terms of time or subject content, and often begins with a sentence like

“What about the time when…”

On a macrolevel, these diversions work to derail discussions that challenge the status quo.

A discussion about gay rights, for example, may be derailed quickly by someone who brings in another social justice issue
just to distract people from the main argument.

As Tara Moss, author of Speaking Out: A 21st Century Handbook for Women and Girls,
notes, specificity is needed in order to resolve and address issues appropriately

– that doesn’t mean that the issues that are being brought up don’t matter,
it just means that the specific time and place may not be the best context to discuss them.

Don’t be derailed – if someone pulls a switcheroo on you, you can exercise what I call the “broken record” method
and continue stating the facts without giving in to their distractions.

Redirect their redirection by saying,

“That’s not what I am talking about. Let’s stay focused on the real issue.”

If they’re not interested, disengage and spend your energy on something more constructive

– like not having a debate with someone who has the mental age of a toddler.

8. Covert and overt threats.
Narcissistic abusers and otherwise toxic people feel very threatened when their excessive sense of entitlement,
false sense of superiority and grandiose sense of self are challenged in any way.

They are prone to making unreasonable demands on others
– while punishing you for not living up to their impossible to reach expectations.

Rather than tackle disagreements or compromises maturely, they set out to divert you from your right to have your own identity
and perspective by attempting to instill fear in you about the consequences of disagreeing or complying with their demands.

To them, any challenge results in an ultimatum and “do this or I’ll do that” becomes their daily mantra.

If someone’s reaction to you setting boundaries or having a differing opinion from your own is to threaten you into submission,
whether it’s a thinly veiled threat or an overt admission of what they plan to do, this is a red flag of someone who has a high degree
of entitlement and has no plans of compromising.

Take threats seriously and show the narcissist you mean business; document threats and report them
whenever possible and legally feasible.

9. Name-calling.
Narcissists preemptively blow anything they perceive as a threat to their superiority out of proportion.

In their world, only they can ever be right and anyone who dares to say otherwise creates a narcissistic injury
that results in narcissistic rage.

As Mark Goulston, M.D. asserts, narcissistic rage does not result from low self-esteem
but rather a high sense of entitlement and false sense of superiority.

The lowest of the low resort to narcissistic rage in the form of name-calling when they can’t think of a better way
to manipulate your opinion or micromanage your emotions.

Name-calling is a quick and easy way to put you down, degrade you and insult your intelligence,
appearance or behavior while invalidating your right to be a separate person with a right to his or her perspective.

Name-calling can also be used to criticize your beliefs, opinions and insights.

A well-researched perspective or informed opinion suddenly becomes “silly” or “idiotic” in the hands
of a malignant narcissist or sociopath who feels threatened by it and cannot make a respectful, convincing rebuttal.

Rather than target your argument, they target you as a person and seek to undermine your credibility
and intelligence in any way they possibly can. It’s important to end any interaction that consists of name-calling
and communicate that you won’t tolerate it.

Don’t internalize it: realize that they are resorting to name-calling because they are deficient in higher level methods.

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10. Destructive conditioning.

Toxic people condition you to associate your strengths, talents, and happy memories with abuse, frustration and disrespect.

They do this by sneaking in covert and overt put-downs about the qualities and traits they once idealized
as well as sabotaging your goals, ruining celebrations, vacations and holidays.

They may even isolate you from your friends and family and make you financially dependent upon them.

Like Pavlov’s dogs, you’re essentially “trained” over time to become afraid of doing the very things that once made your life fulfilling.

Narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths and otherwise toxic people do this because they wish to divert attention
back to themselves and how you’re going to please them. If there is anything outside of them that may threaten
their control over your life, they seek to destroy it.

They need to be the center of attention at all times. In the idealization phase, you were once the center of a narcissist’s world
– now the narcissist becomes the center of yours.

Narcissists are also naturally pathologically envious and don’t want anything to come in between them and their influence over you.

Your happiness represents everything they feel they cannot have in their emotionally shallow lives.

After all, if you learn that you can get validation, respect and love from other sources besides the toxic person,
what’s to keep you from leaving them?

To toxic people, a little conditioning can go a long way to keep you walking on eggshells
and falling just short of your big dreams.

11. Smear campaigns and stalking.

When toxic types can’t control the way you see yourself, they start to control how others see you;
they play the martyr while you’re labeled the toxic one.

A smear campaign is a preemptive strike to sabotage your reputation and slander your name
so that you won’t have a support network to fall back on lest you decide to detach and cut ties with this toxic person.

They may even stalk and harass you or the people you know as a way to supposedly “expose” the truth about you;
this exposure acts as a way to hide their own abusive behavior while projecting it onto you.

Some smear campaigns can even work to pit two people or two groups against each other.

A victim in an abusive relationship with a narcissist often doesn’t know what’s being said about them
during the relationship, but they eventually find out the falsehoods shortly after they’ve been discarded.

Toxic people will gossip behind your back (and in front of your face), slander you to your loved ones or their loved ones,
create stories that depict you as the aggressor while they play the victim, and claim that you engaged in the same behaviors
that they are afraid you will accuse them of engaging in.

They will also methodically, covertly and deliberately abuse you so they can use your reactions
as a way to prove that they are the so-called “victims” of your abuse.

The best way to handle a smear campaign is to stay mindful of your reactions and stick to the facts.

This is especially pertinent for high-conflict divorces with narcissists
who may use your reactions to their provocations against you.

Document any form of harassment, cyberbullying or stalking incidents
and always speak to your narcissist through a lawyer whenever possible.

You may wish to take legal action if you feel the stalking and harassment is getting out of control;
finding a lawyer who is well-versed in Narcissistic Personality Disorder is crucial if that’s the case.

Your character and integrity will speak for itself when the narcissist’s false mask begins to slip.

12. Love-bombing and devaluation.

Toxic people put you through an idealization phase until you’re sufficiently hooked
and invested in beginning a friendship
or relationship with you.

Then, they begin to devalue you while insulting the very things they admired in the first place.

Another variation of this is when a toxic individual puts you on a pedestal while aggressively devaluing
and attacking someone else who threatens their sense of superiority.

Narcissistic abusers do this all the time

– they devalue their exes to their new partners, and eventually the new partner starts to receive the same sort of mistreatment
as the narcissist’s ex-partner.

Ultimately what will happen is that you will also be on the receiving end of the same abuse.

You will one day be the ex-partner they degrade to their new source of supply.

You just don’t know it yet.

That’s why it’s important to stay mindful of the love-bombing technique whenever you witness behavior
that doesn’t align with the saccharine sweetness a narcissist subjects you to.

As life coach Wendy Powell suggests, slowing things down with people you suspect may be toxic is an important way
of combating the love-bombing technique.

Be wary of the fact that how a person treats or speaks about someone else could potentially translate
into the way they will treat you in the future.

13. Preemptive defense.

When someone stresses the fact that they are a “nice guy” or girl, that you should “trust them” right away
or emphasizes their credibility without any provocation from you whatsoever, be wary.

Toxic and abusive people overstate their ability to be kind and compassionate.

They often tell you that you should “trust” them without first building a solid foundation of trust.

They may “perform” a high level of sympathy and empathy at the beginning of your relationship to dupe you,
only to unveil their false mask later on.

When you see their false mask begins to slip periodically during the devaluation phase of the abuse cycle,
the true self is revealed to be terrifyingly cold, callous and contemptuous.

Genuinely nice people rarely have to persistently show off their positive qualities
– they exude their warmth more than they talk about it and they know that actions speak volumes more than mere words.

They know that trust and respect is a two-way street that requires reciprocity, not repetition.

To counter a preemptive defense, reevaluate why a person may be emphasizing their good qualities.

Is it because they think you don’t trust them, or because they know you shouldn’t?

Trust actions more than empty words and see how someone’s actions communicate who they are,
not who they say they are.

14. Triangulation.

Bringing in the opinion, perspective or suggested threat of another person into the dynamic of an interaction
is known as “triangulation.”

Often used to validate the toxic person’s abuse while invalidating the victim’s reactions to abuse,
triangulation can also work to manufacture love triangles that leave you feeling unhinged and insecure.

Malignant narcissists love to triangulate their significant other with strangers, co-workers, ex-partners, friends
and even family members in order to evoke jealousy and uncertainty in you.

They also use the opinions of others to validate their point of view.

This is a diversionary tactic meant to pull your attention away from their abusive behavior
and into a false image of them as a desirable, sought after person.

It also leaves you questioning yourself
– if Mary did agree with Tom, doesn’t that mean that you must be wrong?

The truth is, narcissists love to “report back” falsehoods about others say about you,
when in fact, they are the ones smearing you.

To resist triangulation tactics, realize that whoever the narcissist is triangulating
with is also being triangulated by your relationship with the narcissist as well.

Everyone is essentially being played by this one person.

Reverse “triangulate” the narcissist by gaining support from a third party
that is not under the narcissist’s influence – and also by seeking your own validation.

15. Bait and feign innocence.

Toxic individuals lure you into a false sense of security simply to have a platform to showcase their cruelty.

Baiting you into a mindless, chaotic argument can escalate into a showdown rather quickly with someone
who doesn’t know the meaning of respect.

A simple disagreement may bait you into responding politely initially,
until it becomes clear that the person has a malicious motive of tearing you down.

By “baiting” you with a seemingly innocuous comment disguised as a rational one, they can then begin to play with you.

Remember: narcissistic abusers have learned about your insecurities, the unsettling catchphrases that interrupt your confidence,
and the disturbing topics that reenact your wounds
– and they use this knowledge maliciously to provoke you.

After you’ve fallen for it, hook line and sinker, they’ll stand back and innocently ask whether you’re “okay”
and talk about how they didn’t “mean” to agitate you.

This faux innocence works to catch you off guard and make you believe that they truly didn’t intend to hurt you,
until it happens so often you can’t deny the reality of their malice any longer.

It helps to realize when you’re being baited so you can avoid engaging altogether.

Provocative statements, name-calling, hurtful accusations or unsupported generalizations, for example,
are common baiting tactics.

Your gut instinct can also tell you when you’re being baited
– if you feel “off” about a certain comment and continue to feel this way even after it has been expanded on,
that’s a sign you may need to take some space to reevaluate the situation before choosing to respond.

16. Boundary testing and hoovering.

Narcissists, sociopaths and otherwise toxic people continually try and test your boundaries to see which ones they can trespass.

The more violations they’re able to commit without consequences, the more they’ll push the envelope.

That’s why survivors of emotional as well as physical abuse often experience even more severe incidents
of abuse each and every time they go back to their abusers.

Abusers tend to “hoover” their victims back in with sweet promises, fake remorse and empty words of how they are going to change,
only to abuse their victims even more horrifically. In the abuser’s sick mind, this boundary testing serves as a punishment
for standing up to the abuse and also for being going back to it.

When narcissists try to press the emotional reset button, reinforce your boundaries even more strongly
rather than backtracking on them.

Remember – highly manipulative people don’t respond to empathy or compassion.

They respond to consequences.


17. Aggressive jabs disguised as jokes.

Covert narcissists enjoy making malicious remarks at your expense.

These are usually dressed up as “just jokes” so that they can get away with saying appalling things while still maintaining an innocent,
cool demeanor. Yet any time you are outraged at an insensitive, harsh remark, you are accused of having no sense of humor.

This is a tactic frequently used in verbal abuse.

The contemptuous smirk and sadistic gleam in their eyes gives it away, however
– like a predator that plays with its food, a toxic person gains pleasure from hurting you and being able to get away with it.

After all, it’s just a joke, right? Wrong. It’s a way to gaslight you into thinking their abuse is a joke
– a way to divert from their cruelty and onto your perceived sensitivity.

It is important that when this happens, you stand up for yourself and make it clear that you won’t tolerate this type of behavior.

Calling out manipulative people on their covert put-downs may result in further gaslighting from the abuser
but maintain your stance that their behavior is not okay and end the interaction immediately if you have to.

18. Condescending sarcasm and patronizing tone.

Belittling and degrading a person is a toxic person’s forte and their tone of voice is only one tool in their toolbox.

Sarcasm can be a fun mode of communication when both parties are engaged,
but narcissists use it chronically as a way to manipulate you and degrade you.

If you in any way react to it, you must be “too sensitive.”

Forget that the toxic person constantly has temper tantrums every time their big bad ego is faced with realistic feedback
– the victim is the hypersensitive one, apparently.

So long as you’re treated like a child and constantly challenged for expressing yourself,
you’ll start to develop a sense of hypervigilance about voicing your thoughts and opinions without reprimand.

This self-censorship enables the abuser to put in less work in silencing you, because you begin to silence yourself.

Whenever you are met with a condescending demeanor or tone, call it out firmly and assertively.

You don’t deserve to be spoken down to like a child
– nor should you ever silence yourself to meet the expectation of someone else’s superiority complex.

19. Shaming.

“You should be ashamed of yourself” is a favorite saying of toxic people.

Though it can be used by someone who is non-toxic, in the realm of the narcissist or sociopath, shaming is an effective method
that targets any behavior or belief that might challenge a toxic person’s power.

It can also be used to destroy and whittle away at a victim’s self-esteem:
if a victim dares to be proud of something, shaming the victim for that specific trait, quality
or accomplishment can serve to diminish their sense of self and stifle any pride they may have.

Malignant narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths enjoy using your own wounds against you
– so they will even shame you about any abuse or injustice you’ve suffered in your lifetime as a way to retraumatize you.

Were you a childhood abuse survivor?

A malignant narcissist or sociopath will claim that you must’ve done something to deserve it,
or brag about their own happy childhood as a way to make you feel deficient and unworthy.

What better way to injure you, after all, than to pick at the original wound?

As surgeons of madness, they seek to exacerbate wounds, not help heal them.

If you suspect you’re dealing with a toxic person, avoid revealing any of your vulnerabilities or past traumas.

Until they’ve proven their character to you, there is no point disclosing information that could be potentially used against you.

20. Control.

Most importantly, toxic abusers love to maintain control in whatever way they can.

They isolate you, maintain control over your finances and social networks, and micromanage
every facet of your life.

Yet the most powerful mechanism they have for control is toying with your emotions.
That’s why abusive narcissists and sociopaths manufacture situations of conflict out of thin air
to keep you feeling off center and off balanced.

That’s why they chronically engage in disagreements about irrelevant things and rage over perceived slights.

That’s why they emotionally withdraw, only to re-idealize you once they start to lose control.

That’s why they vacillate between their false self and their true self, so you never get a sense of psychological safety
or certainty about who your partner truly is.

The more power they have over your emotions, the less likely you’ll trust your own reality and the truth
about the abuse you’re enduring.

Knowing the manipulative tactics and how they work to erode your sense of self can arm you with the knowledge
of what you’re facing and at the very least, develop a plan to regain control over your own life and away from toxic people.

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Mikael Howerton says:

• • "Is it not written he who endures to the end will be saved.
    
    This cannot be taken to mean that our salvation is somehow dependent on our personal ability to remain saved.
    
    Rather, it is a promise of perseverance.
    
    Those who have the grace to endure to the end are the ones who are genuinely saved by grace.
    
    The various trials Yahshua mentions will reveal our true colors.
    
    “Most will grow cold” and fall away from thoughts of integrity of Christ like character
    showing that they are professors only and not truly born again (Matthew 24:12).
    
    But those who endure and stand firm in the faith, despite incitements to do otherwise,
    are showing that they are genuine children of God...
    “who by God’s power are being guarded through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time”
    
    ~ Mikael Howerton
    
    
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      Sandra Bowen Glovich says:
      l wish it would happen soon.
      
      Susan Lynne Schwenger says:
      it is like you are writing the lost books of Mikael back to planet Earth

 

Mikael Howerton
11:11 on 25 oct 2021 ·

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